My son has recently passed away suddenly without signs of  illness. He was 34 yrs old, had a good career and was well liked. He went in cardiac arrest while playing Golf.It was found that his arteries were blocked. I am shocked and distressed and so is his brother. My son was the most precious person to me.Was this meant to happen? Where is he? Is he around us and well? I am worried.

Hola Thina

Firstly I am very sorry to hear that your son has passed over so unexpectedly and at such a young age, it must have been a big, big shock for you! My first husband died from the same condition and suddenly when he too was playing sport (he was only 35) so I can understand some of how you are feeling. You ask if it was meant to happen? My belief is yes – I believe that we choose our life paths and that includes what age we decide to go home. Having said that, it really does  not make it any easier for the loved ones left behind! 

What I do feel I need to pass onto you is that yes his energy is still around you and will continue to be so , even though he is not here on a physical level he is still around on an energy level. Please, please don’t be worried about him, he is well and healthy and back with his soul group ready for the next chapter on his evolution. Allow yourself to grieve of course, that is normal, but try to let go of the worry that all is not well with him as this is not the case. 

It will take time for you to recover and life will never be the same again, but trust me one day you will be able to smile and laugh once again and know that our loved ones want this to be the case once they are gone. Go with the flow, let the tears come as they need to, this will help with your healing 

Namaste 

Penny Wing
Master Teacher 
Diana Cooper Foundation