My daughter gave birth to my grandson when she was 18 years old. They lived with my husband and me much to our delight. We fell head over heels in love with our grandson. My daughter slowly, emotionally detached from her son, much to my horror. I imagine that she felt so overwhelmed with being a single mom, going to college full-time and working full-time, while all her friends were footloose and fancy free, that she pushed him away out of resentment. I don’t know for sure, though. Anyway, that is when I became a surrogate mom to him. Our bond is pure love. Then, my daughter suddenly sent my grandson to live with his dad. Fortunately, it’s in the same town that we live in. Nevertheless, I went from caring for my grandson 24/7 to seeing him two days every two weeks. I am heartbroken. He is heartbroken. It’s been 4 months and he still begs to “come home.” If I knew that he was being nurtured and he felt safe and loved, that would help me accept the current situation. I want him to come home so much that I am always in despair. I would love to have some advice from the angels, especially to see the bigger picture or the karmic picture. Most of all, I need to know that my grandson is all right. Thank you for any help you can offer.
Sorry to hear you are so sad at the moment! The first question I would ask is – what makes you think your grandson is not loved, nurtured and safe with his dad? Is this fact or an assumption?
It would help you to change the energy around this situation and step into your authentic power instead of feeling like a victim….I don’t mean that to sound harsh but it’s the law of attraction, what you focus on you attract. You sound full of fear and despair at the moment and your grandson will pick up on this when he comes to visit. Make sure the time you spend with him is one of magic and fun and just accept that FOR THE TIME BEING this is how it is, it does not mean it will stay like this!! There is a reason why at a SOUL level your grandson was with you full time for a short time but at the moment he is with his dad. I feel you do accept this at a soul level but at a personality level it is hard?
You can ask Mother Mary to look after your grandson or Archangel Michael, whichever you prefer but SEE him as being loved and cared for when not with you and this will help to create this reality
Well done for being a caring grandmother by the way!
Love and Light
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