Dear Diana

I have a question about pregnancy. After a lot of love, and then quite a lot of hurt and unhappiness in relationship I felt it was time to leave my husband. We have a wonderful son together. It is a self-esteem and self-respect decision knowing higher standards are possible. Especially after a pattern of infidelity on his part. The love and bond will always be there between us but I felt I couldn’t tolerate any more. However, now I have just discovered I am pregnant….and am weighing heavily the implications of all my possible choices. I did not intend to get pregnant however now I am. And I was building up my confidence in order to leave my husband. I have never thought I would be faced with this situation. Abortion no matter how early on in pregnancy feels against the flow of life and not life-affirming or enhancing. How is this seen spiritually? And the pregnancy is a gift that has come to me even though I didn’t intend it. How does this work on a soul level…?

I feel very silly for getting pregnant when I could have been more careful and self-protective. My deliberating about this decision about staying or leaving has kept me in a no man’s land without clarity, but now I’m in a more urgent and demanding situation. If I leave my husband, my child will not have a Dad. And I feel irresponsible bringing it into a less than ideal family situation. Only divine miraculous solutions and support have the answers here! I have also been concerned about my health with a second pregnancy as I sometimes struggle with autoimmune symptoms and fatigue. Please advise what route could benefit us and bring the most happiness and wellbeing…. and how I can best deal with this situation. Any light on this I will hugely appreciate!

Abundant love,

Kelly

Hola Kelly

Angels do not judge our behaviour so please let go of any self judgements you may have about your forthcoming pregnancy. I do feel you need to go and talk to someone about your options and, most importantly,  about how you feel before making any sort of decisions. We have free will – Angels will not tell you what to do – this is all about your soul journey BUT what they will do is support you and guide you through any decision you take. The most important thing is to listen to your intuition – this will guide you in the right direction. 

Namaste

Penny Wing
Master Teacher
Diana Cooper Foundation